Everyone do encounter failure one time or another. Facing it is dreadful. It hurts.
Do you run away from it?
Do you stay strong and face it head-on?
Yes, you may be strong and accept this failure. But what next?
Being able to face and accept failure is good, but is that the end?
Picking up from failure is the key issue, not just staying strong in the face of failure.
Learning from the mistake made makes you a better person.
Being able to analyse the situation, and review the problem is enlightening to your future.
It makes you smarter.
It is the action taken after the failure that matters.
It is the standing up attitude after the fall that strengthens you.
Fear of failure is, thus, reduced if correct mental approach to it is practiced.
Understand that you cannot and surely cannot avoid making mistake.
Do not be shy.
Learn from sincere asking yourself whether you wish to hide from the fact or truth.
Keep learning and turn failure into a positive journey of self-improvement.
Happy learning.
:-D
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Fear of Failure
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What is failure?
How do you view failure?
Failure is a frightening word anyone detest.
Yet it cannot be avoided.
Since we cannot avoid or prevent this from happening, we have to have the courage to face it when it comes along.
Having the courage requires a mindset change.
Does failure needs hopeless?
No. It means that the result did not meet the desired outcome.
Not meeting the targeted objectives does not mean all is lost.
The experience along the way is one good lesson we picked up.
Failure is just a deviation of the intended path.
There is nothing to fear other than the looks of the naives.
Avoid them, for they are the fearful lot.
Jumping into the unknown is a potential risk in meeting failure.
New experience and exposure will be encountered.
New outlook of a certain topic or area of interest will happen.
All this expand your knowledge.
Failure, hence, is a good starting point for you to review your procedures and technique in approaching a goal.
Face it with a positive attitude.
More is gained rather than lost.
Ironically it seems but true!
Fear not failure as it teaches.
Take up any challenge when it comes.
Avoiding it is a no-no strategy.
Avoiding it means you are reversing back to your original status. Status quo!
Do you want living life with no excitement and no new experience?
It is boring.
Think over it.
Think about failure.
Is it that dreadful?
What is the most you can lose? Access the siutation.
Self-improvement is important.
Pull yourself out of the well and look at the beautiful happenings around you.
Learn and face failure squarely.
Love it!
And life will be better.
:-D
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What is failure?
How do you view failure?
Failure is a frightening word anyone detest.
Yet it cannot be avoided.
Since we cannot avoid or prevent this from happening, we have to have the courage to face it when it comes along.
Having the courage requires a mindset change.
Does failure needs hopeless?
No. It means that the result did not meet the desired outcome.
Not meeting the targeted objectives does not mean all is lost.
The experience along the way is one good lesson we picked up.
Failure is just a deviation of the intended path.
There is nothing to fear other than the looks of the naives.
Avoid them, for they are the fearful lot.
Jumping into the unknown is a potential risk in meeting failure.
New experience and exposure will be encountered.
New outlook of a certain topic or area of interest will happen.
All this expand your knowledge.
Failure, hence, is a good starting point for you to review your procedures and technique in approaching a goal.
Face it with a positive attitude.
More is gained rather than lost.
Ironically it seems but true!
Fear not failure as it teaches.
Take up any challenge when it comes.
Avoiding it is a no-no strategy.
Avoiding it means you are reversing back to your original status. Status quo!
Do you want living life with no excitement and no new experience?
It is boring.
Think over it.
Think about failure.
Is it that dreadful?
What is the most you can lose? Access the siutation.
Self-improvement is important.
Pull yourself out of the well and look at the beautiful happenings around you.
Learn and face failure squarely.
Love it!
And life will be better.
:-D
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Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Why Character Matters?
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Have you met people who are successful and rich?
Or people who are intellectually one up above you?
How is their character?
Do they give up easily?
Are they fighters?
Most of them, if you observe closely, stay true to their passion.
They do not give up as easily as others when they face obstacles.
They strike on. They read and find out answers.
Ultimately, everything boils down to character.
If you do strongly believe in yourself that you can make it, you will do whatever it takes.
This is character.
If you desire to be number one, and stay on to prepare and nurture with whatever material and resources you have, you have good self-improvement character.
It is the strength within yourself that pushes you on.
You eat humble pie to pursue knowledge.
This is not weakness but vision.
Clear vision comes from a determined character.
An inner voice within yourself calling for a meaningful life.
Hence do good not only to others but also to yourself.
Practice good behaviour and thought.
They will form into habits that will serve you into ripe age.
Therefore, aim for good character as it is the starting point for a better future.
:- D
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Have you met people who are successful and rich?
Or people who are intellectually one up above you?
How is their character?
Do they give up easily?
Are they fighters?
Most of them, if you observe closely, stay true to their passion.
They do not give up as easily as others when they face obstacles.
They strike on. They read and find out answers.
Ultimately, everything boils down to character.
If you do strongly believe in yourself that you can make it, you will do whatever it takes.
This is character.
If you desire to be number one, and stay on to prepare and nurture with whatever material and resources you have, you have good self-improvement character.
It is the strength within yourself that pushes you on.
You eat humble pie to pursue knowledge.
This is not weakness but vision.
Clear vision comes from a determined character.
An inner voice within yourself calling for a meaningful life.
Hence do good not only to others but also to yourself.
Practice good behaviour and thought.
They will form into habits that will serve you into ripe age.
Therefore, aim for good character as it is the starting point for a better future.
:- D
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Saturday, October 10, 2009
Simple Way To Gain Trust
Everyone look at each other everytime.
Some try to size you up when you are new to them.
Some may ignore you.
Even when they are your close friends or not-so-close friends, they still do monitor your behaviour and reaction to things and tasks.
What if you are assigned to lead them or mentor them?
Do they trust your ability?
Do they TRUST you?
I believe these are not new questions to you.
So how do you win their trust and get them to co-operate with you?
One simple way is to lead by example.
This, therefore, involves self-improvement.
When you are tasked to work on a project (for example) with a group of people, these team-mates of yours will scan you through thoroughly.
This is for sure!
Do not blame them as it is human nature.
To win their trust, and let them work with you, prove tothem that you can.
Prove to them that you are sincere in working out the role given to you.
Prove to them that you are able and can independently settle problems (within limits, of course).
When you are able to fulfill the above, chances are that you will be respected by them and trust will follow suit.
It is that simple!
Everyone likes to work with people who are deem not to be a burden to them.
Hence if you are able to perform, in their eyes, you will win their trust straight away.
Therefore, self-improve. Everyone is looking at you.
Hope you agree.
Any comments? .......
:-D
Some try to size you up when you are new to them.
Some may ignore you.
Even when they are your close friends or not-so-close friends, they still do monitor your behaviour and reaction to things and tasks.
What if you are assigned to lead them or mentor them?
Do they trust your ability?
Do they TRUST you?
I believe these are not new questions to you.
So how do you win their trust and get them to co-operate with you?
One simple way is to lead by example.
This, therefore, involves self-improvement.
When you are tasked to work on a project (for example) with a group of people, these team-mates of yours will scan you through thoroughly.
This is for sure!
Do not blame them as it is human nature.
To win their trust, and let them work with you, prove tothem that you can.
Prove to them that you are sincere in working out the role given to you.
Prove to them that you are able and can independently settle problems (within limits, of course).
When you are able to fulfill the above, chances are that you will be respected by them and trust will follow suit.
It is that simple!
Everyone likes to work with people who are deem not to be a burden to them.
Hence if you are able to perform, in their eyes, you will win their trust straight away.
Therefore, self-improve. Everyone is looking at you.
Hope you agree.
Any comments? .......
:-D
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Finding Excuses
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Have you wonder why some people progress in life better than others?
Do you find them "action" people?
I personally find that they do produce results after some effort on their part. The result though may not be exceptionally good. But they do have outcomes!
Why then do some others stay put and make little progress if any?
I noticed that these latter group of people tend to find excuses to cover their lack of interest to upgrade.
They tend to give all sort of reasons to hide behind their weakness and pretend to be "great".
Some even go to the extend of openly declaring that they don't understand, therefore will not do anything.
What results is status quo! No progress is made.
What should be done is to remove the obstacles blocking the understanding. Pick up more fundamental subjects related to the topics. Read anything leading to the issue or ask for help. Take action!
Simply changing the mindset to clear any hindrance will be half a battle won.
The firm mindset to learn and self-improve will last a long time till old age.
This is a skill precious enough to set example for your predecessor. They will respect you!
Do not find any more excuses when you meet with obstacles. Take initiatives and move forward with a positive attitude. In summary be honest.
Hope this post will push anyone who stay put to jump start self-improvement.
Cheers!
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Have you wonder why some people progress in life better than others?
Do you find them "action" people?
I personally find that they do produce results after some effort on their part. The result though may not be exceptionally good. But they do have outcomes!
Why then do some others stay put and make little progress if any?
I noticed that these latter group of people tend to find excuses to cover their lack of interest to upgrade.
They tend to give all sort of reasons to hide behind their weakness and pretend to be "great".
Some even go to the extend of openly declaring that they don't understand, therefore will not do anything.
What results is status quo! No progress is made.
What should be done is to remove the obstacles blocking the understanding. Pick up more fundamental subjects related to the topics. Read anything leading to the issue or ask for help. Take action!
Simply changing the mindset to clear any hindrance will be half a battle won.
The firm mindset to learn and self-improve will last a long time till old age.
This is a skill precious enough to set example for your predecessor. They will respect you!
Do not find any more excuses when you meet with obstacles. Take initiatives and move forward with a positive attitude. In summary be honest.
Hope this post will push anyone who stay put to jump start self-improvement.
Cheers!
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Wednesday, September 16, 2009
State of Confusion
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Confused?
This is a word everyone dislike and will try to avoid at all cost.
It creates an internal fear, a mental one.
It brings out an insecurity to anyone experiencing it.
"Something is wrong!" The mind sends this message to its owner.
But is it that fearful?
I request you to think again.
If you know something is amiss, isn't it good?
Is it better than not even knowing something is getting misaligned?
A confused state is indirectly a good one.
It tells you that you have something to learn.
It prompts you to the fact that something in your mind does not match with another concept or fact that you already thought you understood.
The confusion is a signal for you to take action. It provides the chance for you to explore previous knowledge.
Hence when you are in a state of confusion, be happy! It is a good sign.
It sounds ironical. But this is not a joke!
I am sure anyone reading this understand my message.
Do not fear confusion if it happens.
Think back and try to piece up the puzzle.
If at any time you feel stressed, allow yourself time-off and come back again.
You have already won half the battle knowing that you are confused!
The answer or solution will come at an appropriate time if you did not give up.
Any way, if you have reached this state of confusion, you will not be someone who will give up the challenge easily.
Or am I wrong?
Comment please....
:D Have a nice day being confuse.
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Confused?
This is a word everyone dislike and will try to avoid at all cost.
It creates an internal fear, a mental one.
It brings out an insecurity to anyone experiencing it.
"Something is wrong!" The mind sends this message to its owner.
But is it that fearful?
I request you to think again.
If you know something is amiss, isn't it good?
Is it better than not even knowing something is getting misaligned?
A confused state is indirectly a good one.
It tells you that you have something to learn.
It prompts you to the fact that something in your mind does not match with another concept or fact that you already thought you understood.
The confusion is a signal for you to take action. It provides the chance for you to explore previous knowledge.
Hence when you are in a state of confusion, be happy! It is a good sign.
It sounds ironical. But this is not a joke!
I am sure anyone reading this understand my message.
Do not fear confusion if it happens.
Think back and try to piece up the puzzle.
If at any time you feel stressed, allow yourself time-off and come back again.
You have already won half the battle knowing that you are confused!
The answer or solution will come at an appropriate time if you did not give up.
Any way, if you have reached this state of confusion, you will not be someone who will give up the challenge easily.
Or am I wrong?
Comment please....
:D Have a nice day being confuse.
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Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Solving Problems With a New Mindset
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Have you ever tried solving a sticking problem but went round and round without clearing the issue?
It makes you angry, right?
I bet!
But do not despair. It may be due to the approach that you applied.
When you encounter a problem, it is normally because your concept or technique is wrong or inappropriate.
When you use back the same mindset to solve the problem, you are actually using back the wrong tools that created the problem.
Maintaining the same level of mindset is also another mistake you made.
Holding back to the same level to solve the issue cannot allow you to see the issue at an elevated platform.
Sometimes, you need to stand higher up to link up a bigger picture before you can actually notice the error or loophole within.
Changing your mindset and its level to resolve issue is key to improving yourself.
Linking steps before and around the current situation is a skill that is needed to have a smooth and systematic approach to problem-solving.
Be aware that there are always many other ways to look at a problem.
Be flexible and look at things from many angles.
You will, then, find that solving problems an enjoyable challenge.
Cheers and many problem-solving! :)
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Have you ever tried solving a sticking problem but went round and round without clearing the issue?
It makes you angry, right?
I bet!
But do not despair. It may be due to the approach that you applied.
When you encounter a problem, it is normally because your concept or technique is wrong or inappropriate.
When you use back the same mindset to solve the problem, you are actually using back the wrong tools that created the problem.
Maintaining the same level of mindset is also another mistake you made.
Holding back to the same level to solve the issue cannot allow you to see the issue at an elevated platform.
Sometimes, you need to stand higher up to link up a bigger picture before you can actually notice the error or loophole within.
Changing your mindset and its level to resolve issue is key to improving yourself.
Linking steps before and around the current situation is a skill that is needed to have a smooth and systematic approach to problem-solving.
Be aware that there are always many other ways to look at a problem.
Be flexible and look at things from many angles.
You will, then, find that solving problems an enjoyable challenge.
Cheers and many problem-solving! :)
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